When you do something you do not have to because someone else thinks you should even though you do not want to – you have to re-consider!
If you feel you have to do something that you do not want – make sure that it is for your own sake and not for anyone else. Once you realize that, you will want to do it!
There are things we do for ourselves because that is consistent with how we want to be perceived. Even though it is a help to someone else it is still for our own self-image’s sake and for our own perception of how ”loveable” we want to be!
The future depends on the fact that we value our own ”loveableness” widely. The fact that we are acting in solidarity and sympathy towards our fellow human beings - FOR OUR OWN sake will be crucial …
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Well, someone tried to share this insight with me. Now I understand and suddenly don’t feel myself being egostic that much any more.
hello, i ‘m Delaram, a student of MBA-human resource in India, happy to come across this website and get to know you. i’m also intersted in human behavior and relations.